We all get it wrong sometimes in the bedroom, but ladies, ladies, ladies you should know there are some things you definitely should do and not do when it comes to getting down and jiggy with it!
Here are our top tips:
1. Do Freshen up down there
We all get caught out sometimes when we least expect to get any action but if you can do try and keep your lady parts well groomed and smelling fresh! Even if this means quickly popping to the toilet to wash up before you get down to business. You’ll appreciate it and so will they!
2. Don’t talk about babies or your parents
Talk about mood killer, especially if this is just a one night stand. I know it can be nerve racking when your clothes are coming off and you’re in the midst of getting some but no talk or small talk is definitely better than talking about how many babies you want in the future or what your parents had for dinner! This is a major turn off!
3. Do embark on some foreplay
Foreplay often gets neglected when you’re in a long term relationship, but it shouldn’t do as it holds just as much benefits for you as it does for your partner. As most women struggle to climax during intercourse, why not make the most of foreplay opportunities that are more likely to see you orgasm? A fantastic way of getting you in the mood, discovering each other’s bodies and likes and dislikes, foreplay is definitely one to keep the sparks alive.
4. Don’t scream out your ex-boyfriends name
I don’t think we need to say anything else on this one, just don’t!
5. Do Experiment with your partner
We’re not saying to get the whips and chains out straight away but be open to your partner if they want to try something new in the bedroom. If you think it’s not for you perhaps think of easier ways for you to experiment together and lead into it in a more natural fashion. If it’s definitely not your cup of tea though let them know as they will most likely only want to do things to please you sexually.
6. Don’t fake it
You may think you are helping your man by faking it but in reality you’re not! Not only do you leave yourself under satisfied but you are fooling him into thinking he’s done enough to take you to the finish line! If you really want that “happy ending” than tell him the things that you know works for you or lay off the moans and groans so he works harder to make it happen!
7. Do deliver the goods when you say you will
If you say you’re going to have sex with your partner tonight, do it! There’s nothing worse than being sexually teased and aroused to then not deliver the goods! If you’re giving your partner the eye all day and then “too tired” when it gets to 9pm it’s bound to leave them more than a little sexually frustrated. If something has come up at work, or at home that is unavoidable then they are sure to understand, but doing this on a regular basis is the kiss of death on any relationship.
8. Don’t text or answer your phone during sex
We’re in a digital age where everyone is texting, tweeting, Facebooking, calling, emailing all the time, sometimes all at once, but this does not mean you have to take it to the bedroom! If it’s an emergency call, yeah sure pick it up, if it’s your mum asking if you’ll be over for Sunday lunch leave it, it can wait, your orgasm on the other hand may not!
9. Do take it in turns to climax
Sex in movies always looks so sexy, there’s never a bad angle and the couple always rather quickly orgasm together! In real life this is not true, sometimes you will, sometimes you won’t, so don’t fret about it! If you’re partner is near the brink of orgasm why not let them enjoy it and let them return the favour later?
10. Don’t just lie there and do nothing
We may not all be like Samantha from Sex in the City when it comes to how we act in the bedroom but lying there and doing nothing is just no fun for anyone. Sex is a game for two, so liven up and get into it! Did you know that 30minutes of active sex burns 200 calories? Enough said!