What’s the big deal with lube?
A lot actually!
Whilst some of us may be lucky enough to self lubricate at the mere mention of the word “sex” some of us need a little extra hand when it comes to preparing our body for sex or foreplay. Your nipples may have perked up, you’re feeling hot and flustered but yet no “ahem” action down there telling you that you’re ready to go! It doesn’t matter if your partner is the hottest thing since sliced bread because it’s just not happening … and you know what? This is normal! Yes this does happen to most of us at some point or another. Reasons could linked to where you are in your menstrual cycle or if you are breastfeeding or in menopause. Don’t worry though as help is at hand to make your sexual experience not only better but a hell of a lot more comfortable with our top 5 recommended lubes for every situation. Let me break it down:
1. Warming – Fancy a quickie?
Why not? Warming lubricants are fast acting and tell your body within an instant that you’re raring to go and ready for action. Great for adding extra sensations during sex or foreplay, warming lubricants are also fun when used on the outside of a condom. Try it and you’ll see! Just be careful not to use too much as your vagina is very sensitive so too much warmth may be a bit too intense for women with sensitive skin.
2. Flavoured – Oral delight
Fun for some a chore for others, but why should it be? Make oral sex more fun, and tasty with some of our flavoured lubricants. Always taste before using to make sure you like the taste and always chose a sugar-free formula to protect those against sensitive skin and prone to yeast infections.
3. Water-based – Everyday lubes for women
Most lubricants out there today are water-based, which is fab as water-based lubricants are great for people with sensitive skin, as well as being safe for use with condoms and easy to wash off, not just your body but your sheets.
Important: Do always check the label though if you have sensitive skin and are prone to allergies as some water-based lubricants contain propylene glycol or chlorhexidine, which can cause irritation in some women.
4. Silicone – Bath time lovin’
Looking to take your sexual escapades one step further, or maybe a few steps further … all the way to the bathroom? Well here is your solution to fun water sex that won’t let you down. Silicone is your go to lubricant for any water fun as it’s extremely long-lasting, moisturising and won’t come of easily. It’s also great for massage.
Important: Silicone lubricant can also be very slippery and is not to be used with silicone sex toys.
5. Allergies – Sensitive ladies
Some of us are more prone to infection or sensitivity than others when it comes to using products on our vagina so it is best to stay with the most natural products, with fewer additives that are less likely to give you a reaction. Natural lubricants are also a better choice for those looking to conceive as it’s less harmful for men’s sperm flow and works more naturally with your own micro flora.