Oral sex! We all have different opinions on what is etiquette when it comes to giving your guy head, but let me tell you now, you do have more options than simply spit or swallow and here’s my quick guide know how on how to end your session without swallowing.
Yes most guys probably find it incredibly erotic watching a woman swallow when they ejaculate but this doesn’t increase the physical pleasure they experience so don’t feel bad if this isn’t something your into. In fact your guy will be most grateful to receive a blow job from you, than none at all so here’s our top three tips on giving oral without swallowing:
1. Finish him of manually. Next time you plan to go down on your man ask him to signal when he’s about to climax so you can move your mouth away and stimulate him manually with your hands. I’d recommend adding some lubricant into the mix as well as it resembles the same warmth and wetness as your mouth.
2. Finish by sucking his balls. Yes this is really sexy. Start with his favourite oral sex moves and when he signals that he is near the brink go down to sucking his balls whilst using your fingertip to slowly tease and massage his perineum (that smooth spot between his penis and his anus) whilst your other simultaneously works and strokes the shaft of his penis. If you really want to send him over the edge perhaps try licking his scrotal raphe (the upwards line in the middle of his scrotal sac) whilst teasing his penis with your hands. This will work wonders and will make you feel just as involved with oral whilst putting your mouth out of the line of fire.
Handy tip: Cup the head of his penis with your hands when he ejaculates.
3. Finish him in your breasts. As before start by giving him oral sex and when he is near climax lube up your chest and take him between your breasts. Push your breasts firmly together around him and allow him to slide up and down until he reaches his climax.
So there you have it, three ways to enjoy oral sex without swallowing!
Just remember oral sex should still be protected with a new partner or with someone who hasn’t been tested for STDs for always use a condom whether you chose to swallow or not!